What
is Love? It’s just a beautiful feeling, we can’t define it. It can never be
measured, we can only feel it. Nicholas sparks has defined love as, Love is like the wind, you can’t see it but
you can feel it.
I have seen couples
living their life happily and loving their partners truly but today it’s
honestly quite difficult to find such couples. It’s a modern world so now Love
has become modern too. I’m going to deal with Modern Love in this article and
my views are on the basis of my observation and experiences of my friends.
My intentions
are not to hurt feelings of particular group of people and I do respect those
who love their partner genuinely and I wish they’ll have a gleaming future with
their love.
Now let me
narrate in modern world, what does love actually mean? For some people Love has become a pastime.
People get into relationships and fight on diminutive issues and then finally
break-up. I think love is forever and tiny fights can’t separate lovers but
what about those couples who in fact had little conflict and broke up. Yes it’s
modern love. I remember a guy who said to a girl that he can’t live without her and when that girl had refused his proposal he said she was the ugliest
girl he ever met. It was quite funny. My friend proposed a girl and told her, He loves her a lot and he can’t see her with any other guy just be with him.
Girl accepted his proposal and after few months that friend said to me that he can’t
stay longer with her. And that girl said the same and they broke up. I don’t
understand what kind of love it was? But duration of relationships and love is
highly reduced at present.
For some
people love of outer flesh is more vital than inner love. If a guy comes across
a really alluring girl he can fall for her. At the same time if a girl
encounter a guy with good looks she can fall in love with that guy. And if they
both are agree they can come into a relationship. So they just saw each other
and decided to stay together but what about their feelings, ideas and other
things? Oh I forgot its modern love. I espy lot of people around me who don’t
even talk with people not having good looks and it absolutely doesn’t matter
for them about the feelings of that person because he/she does not have
appealing physic or personality. In fact I wish to recite words of a girl when
a simple guy proposed her. She replied can’t you see how worthless you are? You
are just disgusting, how dare you to say this to me? I felt bad for that guy
and in fact I pity for those who are always solicitous for outer beauty because
they will never find true love in their life. I credence in, if your heart is
comely then you are beautiful and if people yearn for a beautiful heart they
will definitely find true love.
Some people
express, love is sweet and spicy and it makes life complete. I remember a joke
here,
Girl: Love
brings spice and sweetness in life.
Boy: Oh
really! Then go for Golgappas Na why love?
No doubt love
has different definitions for different people, so for some it’s sweet, for
some it’s spicy and for some people its combination of both.
I have
noticed people giving lot of gifts to their girlfriend and boyfriend and if
they don’t bring gifts, their lover remark that you don’t love me anymore. Can
gifts measure love? According to me love can only be valued by loving back to
your partner and gifts or anything does not affect anyone’s love for beloved. I
have seen, people come into relationships because they find some people
wealthy and these wealthy people can give many more gifts to them. How funny it
is that flawless love is reckoned below than the unfaithful love of a wealthy
person. I’m feeling pang in my heart for those who in fact loved someone
but because they were not rich or charming they were rebuffed.
People often
use their partners and just throw them from their lives. I would like to
mention here beautiful words by Robert
A. Heinlein; Love is that condition
in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. If we really love someone we
cannot hurt that person so throwing them from our lives is just impossible. It
becomes stiff to forget all these things and plan a happy life with someone.
And I’m perturbed for those who did not get into relationships because of
modern scenario of love. Now some people are petrified of falling in love
because they don’t want to hurt themselves. But I’m afraid for LOVE, I mean
love is just awesome but what will happen in future if we will handle love in
the same way like we are treating it now. Let’s see what happens in future but
I just wish that everyone must find their true love, who’ll accept them the way
they are.
End of the Line
In the end I
would like to say that don’t play with emotions of people. Respect love and
your partner. Love is a beautiful gift from God to you; don’t try to make it a
game. There are people who did not get their love but I think we get only those
things which we really deserve. So don’t be sad you’ll find your love soon and
till then keep searching for a beautiful heart. One more thing, always have
faith in your partner and in the end may be you’ll get a faithful partner or a
very good lesson for life. My best wishes to every couple for a resplendent
future and those who are single, the best is yet to come so just wait for that.