Modern definition of Love

What is Love? It’s just a beautiful feeling, we can’t define it. It can never be measured, we can only feel it. Nicholas sparks has defined love as, Love is like the wind, you can’t see it but you can feel it.

I have seen couples living their life happily and loving their partners truly but today it’s honestly quite difficult to find such couples. It’s a modern world so now Love has become modern too. I’m going to deal with Modern Love in this article and my views are on the basis of my observation and experiences of my friends.

My intentions are not to hurt feelings of particular group of people and I do respect those who love their partner genuinely and I wish they’ll have a gleaming future with their love.

Now let me narrate in modern world, what does love actually mean?  For some people Love has become a pastime. People get into relationships and fight on diminutive issues and then finally break-up. I think love is forever and tiny fights can’t separate lovers but what about those couples who in fact had little conflict and broke up. Yes it’s modern love. I remember a guy who said to a girl that he can’t live without her and when that girl had refused his proposal he said she was the ugliest girl he ever met. It was quite funny. My friend proposed a girl and told her,  He loves her a lot and he can’t see her with any other guy just be with him. Girl accepted his proposal and after few months that friend said to me that he can’t stay longer with her. And that girl said the same and they broke up. I don’t understand what kind of love it was? But duration of relationships and love is highly reduced at present.

For some people love of outer flesh is more vital than inner love. If a guy comes across a really alluring girl he can fall for her. At the same time if a girl encounter a guy with good looks she can fall in love with that guy. And if they both are agree they can come into a relationship. So they just saw each other and decided to stay together but what about their feelings, ideas and other things? Oh I forgot its modern love. I espy lot of people around me who don’t even talk with people not having good looks and it absolutely doesn’t matter for them about the feelings of that person because he/she does not have appealing physic or personality. In fact I wish to recite words of a girl when a simple guy proposed her. She replied can’t you see how worthless you are? You are just disgusting, how dare you to say this to me? I felt bad for that guy and in fact I pity for those who are always solicitous for outer beauty because they will never find true love in their life. I credence in, if your heart is comely then you are beautiful and if people yearn for a beautiful heart they will definitely find true love.  
    

Some people express, love is sweet and spicy and it makes life complete. I remember a joke here,

Girl: Love brings spice and sweetness in life.

Boy: Oh really! Then go for Golgappas Na why love?

No doubt love has different definitions for different people, so for some it’s sweet, for some it’s spicy and for some people its combination of both.

I have noticed people giving lot of gifts to their girlfriend and boyfriend and if they don’t bring gifts, their lover remark that you don’t love me anymore. Can gifts measure love? According to me love can only be valued by loving back to your partner and gifts or anything does not affect anyone’s love for beloved. I have seen, people come into relationships because they find some people wealthy and these wealthy people can give many more gifts to them. How funny it is that flawless love is reckoned below than the unfaithful love of a wealthy person. I’m feeling pang in my heart for those who in fact loved someone but because they were not rich or charming they were rebuffed.

People often use their partners and just throw them from their lives. I would like to mention here beautiful words by Robert A. Heinlein; Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. If we really love someone we cannot hurt that person so throwing them from our lives is just impossible. It becomes stiff to forget all these things and plan a happy life with someone. And I’m perturbed for those who did not get into relationships because of modern scenario of love. Now some people are petrified of falling in love because they don’t want to hurt themselves. But I’m afraid for LOVE, I mean love is just awesome but what will happen in future if we will handle love in the same way like we are treating it now. Let’s see what happens in future but I just wish that everyone must find their true love, who’ll accept them the way they are.

End of the Line

In the end I would like to say that don’t play with emotions of people. Respect love and your partner. Love is a beautiful gift from God to you; don’t try to make it a game. There are people who did not get their love but I think we get only those things which we really deserve. So don’t be sad you’ll find your love soon and till then keep searching for a beautiful heart. One more thing, always have faith in your partner and in the end may be you’ll get a faithful partner or a very good lesson for life. My best wishes to every couple for a resplendent future and those who are single, the best is yet to come so just wait for that.