Every
time we pay attention towards newspaper or notice on television, we encounter with
different outgoings of our society. But one thing is constantly taking place on
a mass scale all over the world i.e. Rapes. There’s not a single day when no
one is raped. And no doubt if we’ll not pay attention towards this problem the
situation will be heart-rending. In this article I’ll break silence on this
irascible issue: Rapes in India. I would like to insist you all that please go
through this article sensitively.
India ranks third in world for the number of rapes
reported each year. And most of the cases are not filed because police neglects
them or victim doesn't wish to file. But if every single case of rape will be reported then statistics will be different. Here in India, rape is the most
common crime and when it comes to dress down rapist our politicians assert,
it’s equally fault of the victim, boys will be boys. I would like to inquire if
a woman is raped then how she’s responsible for her rape. Let me share some
views of people from our society, some said because girls wear short dresses so
men get provoked, women should wear simple clothes and some suggested women
should not go outside. It’s not fault of our clothes but fault of your thinking.
And I don’t think a woman is out of harm’s way in her own house too because there
are cases when a father raped his daughter, a brother raped his sister, and a
father-in-law raped his daughter-in-law or someone else from family and so on.
According to NATIONAL
CRIME RECORD BUREAU, child rape cases increased from 292 in 2012 to 419 in
2013, 93 women are being raped in India every day and in every 20 minutes a
woman is raped. We have seen strong protests from people in Nirbhaya’s case but
it’s in fact excruciating that there is no change in the situations. In greater
kailash an 88 year old lady was raped, in Uttar Pradesh a 23 year old teacher
was allegedly kidnapped and raped, a 15 year girl from Arkalgeed taluk was
raped by her father, and a 7 year girl was raped by a youth in Deokali village,
the list is very long because in every 20 minutes a rape took place in India so
I can’t present each and every case.
If we’ll note that why these cases of rape are
increasing day by day then we’ll find that first of all, victim doesn't file
case and the second thing is if somehow victim file a case then meticulous
actions are not taken against rapist. The reasons of not filing case against
rapist are, family of victim doesn't support her, police doesn't support
victim, and our Indian society doesn't accept victim, its considered a
garden-variety in India and victim was worried for her future. And reasons for
not taking strict actions against rapist are, most of the time rapist was from
a wealthy family so he managed to get out from this, rapist can have
connections with powerful peoples, most of the time it’s difficult to prove
rape and our judiciary system is honestly very kind so rapist knows he’ll get punishment
after a long period of time. Because of
all these things the situation is turning somber in India.
Today India is reckoned as number three in reporting
rapes every year but may be in future India will gain number one position. And
then India will be the Rape Capital of world but do you think it’ll be
beneficial for us??? If we honestly want to handle this condition then first of
all we have to change our mentality towards every woman, as we respect our
mother, daughter, sister or wife in the same way we should respect every woman.
Second thing is families of victim, police and society should support victim
because it’s not her fault. Third thing is strict actions must be taken against
rapist. And the most vital thing is women have to take a stand for themselves
because if they’ll not fight for justice no one can aid them. These were some
steps which can help in overcoming from this problem. I remember here beautiful
words by our present Prime Minister,
Mr. Narendra Modi he said, Mana andhera Ghana hai par Diya jalana bhi kanha mna hai (If it’s dark
enough but lightening a lamp is also not banned). Only a single person can’t solve this
imbroglio so we all have to do efforts for a difference in our society.
End of the Line
In the end I just wish to assert that respect women.
Don’t take rapes as garden-variety. Accept victim because it’s not her flaw if
she was being raped. Support women around you and lend a hand to them. And most
important thing every woman should take a stand for her and for other women.
This problem will not be cleared in few days but if we’ll try then may be after
few years the state will be different. Any article or protest will not succor
in dealing with this issue but we have to change ourselves only then we can
make a difference in society. We say in Hindi that Umeed par duniya kayam hai (This world runs on hope) and somewhere
I have a hope that situation will change and I’m eagerly waiting for that day.
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